As policies impact refugee resettlement, a disabled refugee offers a counter-narrative of hope.
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“Life in the refugee camp was not easy.”
Ngor, Refugee from South Sudan
These words, spoken by Ngor, paint a stark picture of his childhood in Ethiopia. Life in a refugee camp was marked by hardship – no electricity, dirt floors, and sweltering heat. Ngor, who lived with a disability, faced additional challenges.
Ngor could not walk so he was limited in his activities in the camp, often relying on his family to get around. “The road, no school – I needed help with everything.”
Making friends was also difficult, as some of the other children were not always welcoming. Despite these challenges, Ngor found solace in music. He discovered a love for singing, finding joy in the simple act of expressing himself through song.
The news that his family had been approved for resettlement in Spokane, Washington brought a wave of excitement. Suddenly, Ngor had a chance to build towards his dreams.
Living in Spokane opened doors for Ngor, allowing him to achieve things he had never imagined.
Getting around Spokane in a wheelchair was much easier. For once he could attend school regularly. Sidewalks, ramps, and elevators opened a whole world of possibilities. Ngor began to soak up everything he could learn – math, English, science, every subject was fascinating!
“It’s totally different than in the refugee camp,” said Ngor, completely fluent in English. “I learned a lot of new things… It was good. It was exciting.”
When they first arrived, a volunteer escorted the family to Walmart to help them navigate the grocery store and purchase food. The pastor at their church kindly walked them through the process of paying their bills. Ngor’s mother was especially appreciative, expressing her gratitude by saying, “It was helpful to have people teach us.”
“World Relief Spokane has welcomed us so well,” said Ngor. “I don’t know what to say, but America – God will continue blessing you forever and ever.”
Soon, Ngor’s sister wanted to learn to drive. She was understandably nervous, which was sometimes exacerbated by her backseat driving brother! Later, they all laughed about the experience.
Before long, Ngor achieved a remarkable milestone: high school graduation!
Ten years later, Ngor is grateful for the opportunities present in America.
“I will be grateful for the rest of my life. America is changing people’s lives, and I’m an example of it. I’m a disabled [person] and now I’m doing what I can’t do if I’m still in Africa,” said Ngor. “I’m grateful to be part of America society.”
This gratitude fuels a deep empathy for others in need. Having experienced hardship firsthand, Ngor and his family understand the importance of offering support.
“Instead of doing nothing,” said Ngor. “I’d rather help.”
While Ngor recognizes that administrations come and go—”I’m not worried”—the current termination of the U.S. Refugee Resettlement Program underscores the urgency of the situation.
Ngor’s focus remains on bringing attention to the challenges faced by refugees who have come to America seeking a better life and working to build a new home.
“I know that I’ve been there. It’s not that easy.”
Now is the time to extend compassion and support.
Whether through volunteering, financial giving, or advocating for compassionate policies, your actions can make a profound difference. Now is the time to stand in solidarity with refugees as they rebuild their lives, offering them not just refuge, but also the chance to thrive.