Relationships are the foundation of our work at World Relief Seattle. Sometimes they are messy and complex, other times they are natural and straightforward. They always provide an opportunity to learn and grow. As you invest in relationships with our participants, there are a few key attitudes and intentions you can cultivate that will make your interactions more rewarding for you and for those with whom you interact.

Willingness to Suspend Judgment

A participant, partner, or spouse may do or say something that seems strange; don’t immediately jump to conclusions or make judgments. Keep an open mind and remember that every culture makes sense to the people living in it.

Willingness to Learn

Ask questions and listen to the answers. Take time to learn about other cultures.

Sense of Humor

Be willing to laugh off embarrassing, confusing, or annoying moments. Humor can build bridges and smooth awkward interactions as everyone works to understand each other.

Focus on Relationship

Since volunteers wish to see newcomers thriving socially and economically, relationships must be the foundation of their work. Building relationships with healthy boundaries will benefit both parties.

Willingness to Take Risks and Fail

As a volunteer you will have the opportunity to try new things. Jump in! Explore new areas of the city, learn words in a new language, and be a learner in as many situations as you can.

Willingness to Share Yourself

Be willing to be open and honest in relationships. Each volunteer has special gifts and experiences to share.

Do Not Abuse Your Position of Power

Refugees and asylees are in a very vulnerable situation where they may not have any support in the US. Volunteers should not make someone feel any pressure to engage in certain activities or conversations that they do not want to take part in. Be intentional about recognizing power imbalances by giving others space and dignity to make their own choices and influence decisions. Ask questions and give space for answers before offering suggestions.

As you cultivate these attitudes and intentions, we hope they'll contribute to more rewarding interactions and become the foundation for long-term, mutually-transformative relationships.